Don’t you just hate it when you text a guy and he doesn’t respond? You’re not sure if he’s busy or if he’s just not interested. Well, don’t worry! There are some signs that a guy is not interested in you through text.
So, if you’re trying to figure out whether or not the guy you’re texting is into you, here are four signs that can help you out. Trust me, after reading this post, you’ll be able to avoid wasting your time on guys who aren’t interested!
If a guy is not interested in you, there are some clear signals he will give off. Here are fifteen ways how to know if a guy is not interested in you through text.
He takes a long time to responds to your messages
If a guy is interested in you, he’s going to want to respond to your texts quickly.
If it takes him more than a few hours to get back to you, that’s a sign that he’s either not interested or he’s really busy.
He doesn’t ask you any questions
When a guy is interested in you, he’ll want to know more about you. He’ll ask you questions about your life, your interests, and your opinions.
If he never asks you any questions, it could be a sign that he doesn’t care about getting to know you better.
He sends one-word responses
A guy who’s interested in you will put effort into his texts. Even if he’s busy, he’ll find a way to send you more than just a one-word response.
If all you ever get from him are one-word replies, it’s a sign that he’s not that interested.
He doesn’t initiate conversations
If the guy you’re texting never starts conversations with you, it’s a bad sign. A guy who’s interested will want to talk to you and will take the lead in starting conversations.
If you’re always the one who has to start conversations, it could mean he’s not that into you.
He doesn’t keep conversations going
When a guy is interested in you, he’ll do whatever he can to keep the conversation going.
This means asking follow-up questions, making comments, and keeping the conversation going even when there’s a lull. If he doesn’t do any of these things, it could be a sign that he’s not interested.
He always has an excuse for why he can’t meet up with you
If you’ve suggested meeting up and the guy always has an excuse for why he can’t, it’s a bad sign.
A guy who’s interested will find a way to meet up with you, even if it’s just for a quick coffee date.
He never talks about plans for the future
When two people are interested in each other, they’ll start to make plans for the future.
This could be anything from talking about upcoming events to making plans for next weekend. If he never talks about the future, it’s a sign that he’s not interested in you.
He only texts you late at night
If the guy you’re texting only ever contacts you late at night, it’s a sign that he’s only interested in one thing.
While there’s nothing wrong with hooking up, if that’s all he wants from you, it’s not a good sign.
He doesn’t use emoji
Emoji have become commonplace in text conversations. If a guy is interested in you, he’ll likely use them in his texts.
If he never uses emoji or rarely uses them, it could be because he doesn’t care enough to put in the effort.
He never texts you first
If you’re always the one who has to text first, it’s a sign that he’s not interested. A guy who’s interested will make an effort to contact you and will text you first as often as he can.
He doesn’t text you back on weekends
During the week, it’s understandable if a guy is busy and can’t always text back right away.
But if he doesn’t text you back at all on weekends, it’s a sign that he’s not interested. If he was interested, he would find time to text you even if he was busy.
His texts are shorter than yours
When two people are interested in each other, they’ll usually match each other’s level of interest.
This means that if you’re sending long texts, he should be too. If his texts are always shorter than yours, it could be because he doesn’t care enough to put in the effort.
He rarely responds to your Snapchats
If you’re sending him Snapchats and he rarely responds, it’s not a good sign. A guy who’s interested will make an effort to respond to your Snapchats, even if he can’t always reply right away.
He never texts you good morning or goodnight
Saying good morning and goodnight is just a nice way to start and end the day.
If a guy is interested in you, he’ll make sure to text you good morning and goodnight. If he never does, it’s a sign that he doesn’t care about you enough to bother with small gestures like this.
He never texts you just to say hi
When a guy is interested in you, he’ll want to talk to you as often as possible. This means that he’ll text you even if there’s not really anything to say.
If he never texts you just to say hi or ask how your day is going, it’s a sign that he doesn’t care about you.
His messages are shirt and uninterested
The last important thing you should look for is the content of his messages. If they’re always short and uninterested, it’s a sign that he doesn’t care about you.
A guy who’s interested will make an effort to keep the conversation going and will ask you questions about your life.
If you’re seeing all of these signs in your own relationship, it’s time to have a talk with him. You deserve someone who’s interested in you and who cares about you. Don’t settle for anything less than that.
Read more: What to do when he doesn’t text you back
Final words
If you notice any of these signs in the guy you’re texting, it’s a good idea to move on.
There are plenty of other guys out there who would be interested in you and would be happy to text you first, use emoji, and make plans for the future. Don’t waste your time on a guy who doesn’t seem to be interested.
Do you have any other advice on how to tell if a guy is interested? Let us know in the comments!